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Uncategorized Dec 31, 2019

Every year as the clock strikes midnight on 31 December, do you think this?

This year will be my best yet...

I know I have thought that. In fact each year I strive to do just that. I work towards making better choices so that I can live a better life.

But what if I have had it all wrong?

What if life is about more than just living your best life?

What if life is more than making your dreams come true?

What if life is not about sugar coating the truth?

Because the truth as I have come to know it is this...

This year will not be your best year yet. Because that doesn’t exist.

Life will always throw you curve balls. It will always teach you lessons. There will always be heartache and pain. Life is messy!

When you place yourself in a vacuum and constantly strive for excellence and success and freedom...you are bound to be let down.

You stop seeing the richness that the “hard” things in life can teach you about being a better person.

Soooooo many adults fall into the trap of setting goals that are so unrealistic that they painfully fail year after year....

Yet they keep the cycle going.
They focus on themselves.

They want to be fitter, skinnier, happier, cleverer...more fulfilled. They want to earn more money. Have more family time. Be successful.

They want want want....

Me, me, me!

What if...in 2020 we reversed things?

What if we focused on how we can make the year better for those around us?

How about putting humanity first and making all your decisions based on that notion.

Imagine what an amazing place our world would be. ❤️

You see I have big dreams. So don’t get me wrong. I have always been a blue sky thinker and I have always been very goal orientated.

But when I look back in the past...when things always seemed hard. I was always striving. Trying to prove myself. I always felt like I was hustling. I made mistakes. I beat myself up. Learnt the lesson. Annndddd repeat....Me, me, me...

The truth I have found for myself is this. Practicing self care will always be fundamental to my success, because it is the foundation for every single choice I make.

This doesn’t make me selfish. It makes me responsible.

Sometimes I don’t get to choose the situation. Truthfully 2019 brough me a lot of heartache and hurt through the actions of others. Yet the one thing that remained consistent was me taking care of me. By doing this...I was able to take care of others.

This is why 2020 isn’t only about you striving for your personal best. Life is not about what you can get but what you can give.

Despite what you have falsely been led to believe in our commercial world, life is about more than making money or buying things, or going on holidays.

So here is my challenge for you.

How will you make 2020 different?

Will you focus inward obsessively at the expense of those around you?

Or will you focus on refining yourself so that you can give of your best to others, especially children as a Kid Life Coach.

My goal for 2020 is love. That’s all.

💓I choose to love myself despite some people thinking I’m unloveable.

💓I choose to love life even when it may bring challenges I simply cannot understand no matter how hard I try.

💓I choose to love my family and friends unconditionally even when they sometimes take me for granted, neglect me and don’t appreciate my commitment and loyalty to them.

💓I choose to love my colleagues who just like me are striving to make the world a better place for our children.

💓I choose to love my “enemies” who have hard hearts and cruel minds. Who for some reason believe they have power over me and try to control the narrative through their devious actions. They don’t control me and never will...

💓I choose to love and appreciate animals and plants and nature. All of these are fundamental to our existence. So I will recycle and make more sustainable purchases that preserve our planet.

💓I choose to love other people’s children even though they may not need my love nor want it. I have much love to share and the children I meet are better for it. Just imagine the love of their parents AND me as their Secret Parent. Double whammy for raising safe, secure, confident children.

💓I choose to love those who have wronged me because I know they are hurting and have forgotten the essence of what it means to be a team player. Selfishness is the disease of our times and the cause of much distress.

💓I choose to love my mistakes and my successes equally. Both define me. They make me who I am and you can’t have the one without the other.

So yes. This year will be different for me.

I will put love first. Always.

🙏When I feel angry. I will find my way back to love.

🙏When I feel sad. I will find my way back to love.

🙏When I feel let down. I will find my way back to love.

🙏When I feel disappointed. I will find my way back to love.

🙏When I feel unappreciated. I will find my way back to love.

2020 wont be my best year yet.

It will be the year I choose to live my best life. For me and for those around me. It will be the year I choose to put love first.

No more compromises. Or playing it small. Or navigating other people’s agendas. Or making excuses. Or feeling unworthy. Or letting my disappointments taint my fulfilment. Or focusing on past mistakes. Or feeling a prisoner to grief.

No matter what obstacles I face in 2020 I will simply find my way back to love.

My life isn’t about me. It’s about you. It’s about us. It's about the children. It’s about everybody. Each of us has a role to play in creating a better world for our future generation. The goals you make as you enter into the new year are not about superficial things.

Life deserves more of you than that.

So make peace that 2020 won’t be your best year yet....but know this. You can be the best YOU yet.

🤩Life is about leaving a legacy that transcends lifetimes. 🤩

Many in the new year will become ill or take their last breath. Will that be you or I?

We don’t know when our time is up. So shift from fear to love and live each moment as your best YOU!

Make peace with those who have hurt you. Walk away from those who don’t respect nor appreciate you. Forget the mistakes you have made and only take responsibility for learning and growing. Nothing more or less. Just be willing to be a better YOU everyday. Make your choices based on love and not fear and see your world shift....

Imagine the world you want to leave behind and be the shining example to those around you. Especially our future generation.

Children see you. They hear you. They mimic you and they become you. So who are you?

Do you want the children in your care to be you?

No matter what anybody says. Nobody is more important than the next person. We are rivalled as equals all with the same challenge. All of us are united in the fact that we are all trying our best....

To leave our planet a better place than how we found it. We don’t mean to let ourselves or others down...sometimes we just lose our way.

To find our way back...
It all starts with love.

So what will 2020 bring for you? I already know what it will bring for me.

Love is my final destination. My mind. My choice.

2020 wont be my best year yet. It will be the springboard to my best life yet.

My mind.
My choice.

PUTTING HUMANITY FIRST

How about you? Will you put LOVE into action through your Kids Life Coaching? 

Wishing you a wonderful last day of the year!

Regards with Zeal,

Zelna

Kids Life Studio & Kids Life Coach Academy Founder

 

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