Courage without fear is unrealistic as a Kids Life Coach
This morning I asked a trainee Kids Life Coach who has not achieved deadline for submitting her portfolio of evidence and case studies:
“What is your dream?”
She couldn’t answer me...but yet she could tell me what wasn’t working in her life....what you focus on is what you always get more of!!
When we first spoke on her initial interview and strategy call, she had big dreams but life is pulling her in many directions. All I was hearing were words spoken from a space of fear.
She was feeling VERY fearful...she didn't have enough time. She didn't know if she would succeed as a kids life coach...She didn't know why she wasn't able to be more positive. She didn't think Covid would allow her to launch. She didn't think parents could afford her fees.
I have BIG audacious dreams and many people have called me a visionary and blue sky thinker...I have achieved many goals but have taken baby steps along the way!! However, I have never ever entertained negative fearful thinking when it comes to being a children's change maker.
Just like this trainee Kids Life Coach, life has also pulled me in many directions but I keep persevering! How?
I commit to taking small daily actions that make my children's change maker dreams come true!!! Bite sized chunks!
What about you?
You don’t have to have it all mapped out (yet) just take action...what can you do today to take you closer to your desired life? How will you show courage and overcome your fears?
I believe that courage without fear is unrealistic. It is okay to feel scared like this trainee Kids Life Coach. It is okay to feel overwhelmed. However you can choose whether or not to stay there. You can choose how you will show up!
Showing courage is about putting your own personal fears and that little negative voice in your head aside so that you can do the work you deserve to do.
How you choose to make your dreams come true will be dependent on your courage to overcome your fears. Many of these start in your own head. There are enough clients. There is enough money. Covid has increased foot traffic. You are good enough!
We are all in the same storm, but not in the same boat. Many kids life coaches are flourishing and growing from strength to strength. They have stepped out of their own negative fearful thinking and are making a difference. Others who entertain excuses, fear and negative thinking are struggling.
Can you connect the dots here?
If you choose to realistically put one foot forward each day, with commitment and courage his will this impact on your children and other people’s children...
See it, feel it, make it real in your imagination first. Then trust that if you take action everyday you will achieve what you deserve!!
If you are a current Kids Life Coach certification student or listed on The Kids Life Studio® website, join me this week at 5 pm UK for our Thinking Thursday mentorship call. Our topic is "Courage without fear is unrealistic" so join me as we navigate our fears and remain strong in body, heart and mind. Check out for the link on our private Kids Life Studio® Children's Change Makers Facebook page.
Have a courageous and fulfilling week! One step at a time!
Take care,
Zelna
Kids Life Studio® & Kids Life Coach Academy Founder
