Kids Life Coach Academy

A resilience building membership for the whole family

Dear Parent!

I want to say thank you so much for your interest in enrolling in this unique family resilience membership programme! You are a parent who understands the value of discovering your child's inner leader!

In my work with families over the past two decades, my passion is in building peak performance in children.  I believe there is no reason for you to worry about the possibility that your child is suffering from high anxiety levels, angry outbursts and on the extreme side....self harm, drug or alcohol abuse...there is a simple solution and it starts with YOU!

I believe every family will be faced with the ups and downs of life, and if they don't have a toolkit or support system in place, the side effects on children can be negative. This can be prevented!

The solution that my global team and I will introduce you to in this family resilience toolkit is making use of daily consistent habits that become the building blocks for mental toughness and grit! This means your family can feel confident that they can face ANYTHING and get through it because you have the tools to do so!

If you are the kind of parent who is an action taker for your children, then this is for you! The biggest bonus is that you will be supported by our global network of Kids Life Studio® Coaches.  You will not only get access to me, but also to each one of them! Each of them are experts in their own particular niche and they will will be on hand to support you with their own professional education and unique experiences to help your family reach for your dreams.

Now more than ever, your child needs to discover their inner leader!  Our global network of world-class Kids Life Coaches and I look forward to supporting you in your journey to building an emotionally intelligent family that thrives and not just survives! 

So click here to join our parent support network on Facebook and ask any questions you may have! 

We have also given you a 30-day free "try before you buy".  So we hope you will find value in our offer! All you have to do is give it a go! What have you got to lose!!

Regards with Zeal,

Zelna (The Secret Parent)

Kids Life Studio & Kids Life Coach Academy Founder 

What is this Family Resilience Toolkit about?

Parenting can be a challenging time with the multitude of changes, demands and issues that children could be facing! 

So many parents spend all their time nurturing their children but they neglect the most important person in the relationship which is themselves! When this happens, it has the potential to spill over into their children’s lives and this could show up in negative behaviour. 

If this is you, this membership is going to support you to lay a solid foundation for finding the peace and joy you so desire in your family! Especially when the world sometimes feels like it is going crazy!  If you feel like you are already equipped with resilience, that's great too! This programme will consolidate your toolkit and keep you motivated and inspired with tools, techniques and activities to keep the momentum going!

Who designed the Family Resilience Toolkit?

This family resilience programme is based on a unique coaching model developed by  author of The Secret Parent and founder of The Kids Life Studio® and the Kids Life Coach Academy, Zelna Lauwrens. She designed this coaching model with the aim of supporting children to navigate the ups and downs of life.  This family resilience programme has been offered around the world in face-to-face workshops by our network of Kids Life Studio® Brand Ambassadors and is now available online to make it more accessible for you!  

What is the foundation of this Family Resilience Toolkit?

Initially we give you access to this Family Resilience Building membership for FREE for a whole 14 days!!  During the Covid-19 lockdown, we are extending this to 30 days.  So this means that if your child is working with one of our certified Kids Life Studio Coaches, you will be given this additional layer of support for you to use in the comfort of your own home as well.  

If your child isn't receiving coaching from one of our professional Kids Life Coaches...the good news is that this easy to use membership gives you all the tools that will help you to implement the 4 Pillars for Success:





Just like regular exercise builds up healthy bodies this Family Resilience Building toolkit helps to strengthen your families body, heart, mind and spirit by following an easy personal development process. We know it works because we have been doing it since 2003!

Check out how our process works by clicking here

Who can use this Family Resilience Building Toolkit?

This is NOT a parent coaching programme...nor is it a child coaching programme. Instead, this combines a whole family approach so that parents and children can collaborate in building their strengths and focusing on building a success mindset.  

Although you get access initially for 30 days, the ongoing monthly membership is for any parent who understands the value of investing into their family well-being. It has been designed in such a way that you will take exactly what you need from it!  If you are a proactive parent, we need to warn you that the effects will be far reaching and will ripple way past your own family!

Which kind of Parent enjoys using our Family Resilience Toolkit?

We target the parent who might be:

  • Struggling with routine and discipline in their home
  • Feeling confused by the unwritten rules of parenting
  • Looking for a way to build their own confidence as a parent
  • On track but needs extra motivation to take action
  • Stressed by the daily tasks of being a parent
  • Wanting a system to change their family lifestyle 
  • Interested in raising a confident child in body, heart and mind
  • Needs guidance for opening the lines of communication 
  • Anxious about the ups and downs of life and want to build resilience
  • Is looking for practical activities to build emotional intelligence
  • Understands the need for an additional layer of support
  • Unwilling to struggle trying to figure things out alone

How does this Family Resilience Building Toolkit work?

This Emotional Intelligence programme consists of parents making use of our unique Journal over 28 days with each day tackling a new theme. Yes! You get this FREE in the first 30 days even if you don't continue your membership! We want everybody to access our unique methods so that your family can flourish!  The journal focuses on "Discovering your child's inner leader". 

To hold you accountable, during your initial one month FREE membership an e-mail is sent to you each day for 30 days so the you can  remember to do a daily check-in and to celebrate your child's achievements and unpack any lessons that come along using the journal. 

The added bonus is belonging to a parent support group on facebook where you can ask any questions and offer reflections and our global network of professional Kids Life Studio® Coaches will offer their professional advice. 

What is covered in the initial FREE 30 days of this Family Resilience programme?

The themes covered include:

Day 1:  Zeal parenting 

Day 2: Expectations 

Day 3: Time 

Day 4:  Value yourself 

Day 5:  Having purpose 

Day 6: Overcoming obstacles 

Day 7: Communicating purpose 

Day 8: Beliefs 

Day 9: Coincidence 

Day 10:  Focus & determination 

Day 11: Taking action 

Day 12: Fear of failure 

Day 13: Patience 

Day 14: Trusting myself 

Day 15: Passion 

Day 16: Compassion 

Day 17: Giving is receiving 

Day 18: Being great! 

Day 19: Personal commitment 

Day 20: Personal Power 

Day 21: You can do anything 

Day 22: Unconditional love 

Day 23: Having hope 

Day 24: Lightening up 

Day 25: Celebrate 

Day 26: Saying thank you 

Day 27: Living the moment 

Day 28: Finding peace 

What tools will you get to support your family as a parent?

The strength of this programme is designed around making use of the dynamic Family Resilience Toolkit which is a unique tool that supports you to reengineer your family life so that you can maximise your child's success.

By investing into our ongoing membership you are given access to our live online coaching for you and your child. You will also get access to monthly toolkits based on tangible activities you can do in the comfort of your own home to enhance emotional, social, physical and mental resilience.  

In your initial 30 day FREE membership, you will be provided with:  

  • The Discovering your Child's inner leader Journal with checklists, inspirational quotes, illustrations and space for daily scribbles. 
  • Printable motivational posters & templates
  • Tangible resources for building your own family resilience toolkit

If you choose to continue your membership, here is some good news!  If you attend any of our Kids Life Studio® authorised live face to face workshops, you will gain 50% discount on your monthly membership. Your Kids Life Studio® Coach will give you a voucher code that grants you access as an action taker parent that has attended one of their coaching programmes!

Visit our find a coach page to find a certified Kids Life Studio® Coach in your local area and enrol in a foundation programme and get access to this toolkit on a monthly basis at 50% of the original fee!  

What outcomes can parents expect to achieve by using this Family Resilience Toolkit?

Discovering your child's inner leader®: 

  • Is a proven way to help your family to overcome their self-defeating thoughts and behaviours.
  • Has an important role in facilitating that the you take a look at yourself from the inside out.   This means forming a correlation between negative thoughts that result in negative choices which impact on your children’s behaviour. 
  • Supports you to acknowledge that there may be things that you need to, or want to change about yourself. 
  • Helps you to find success by making healthier lifestyle choices for your family. 
  • Facilitates finding solutions for problems that your children may be facing.
  • It assists in forming a success mindset that sees every challenge as an opportunity to learn and grow.
  • Builds family dynamics and opens the lines of communication based on solid family values

Will you receive a certificate?

Please note that this Family Resilience Toolkit is an ongoing monthly membership programme and it does not provide you with a formal training programme and as such there is no certificate. All of our Kids Life Studio® Certified coaches  are on hand to offer support on an individual basis by tailor-making a support programme just for you if you want something more than this membership!  

Family Resilience Building Membership

This unique Family Resilience Club is for the parent who understand the value of offering support to their children through the ups and downs of life.  Rather than waiting for things to go wrong, and then trying to "fix" them, this membership is for the parent who understands the value of prevention rather than cure!  

This membership was designed by founder of The Kids Life Studio® and the Kids Life Coach Academy, Zelna Lauwrens with the aim of supporting parents to get into sync with their own lives so that their family life can continue to flourish. 

On a monthly basis, families will get:

A user friendly Resilience Building Toolkit to use at home

Monthly Q & A call with founder of the Kids Life Studio, Zelna Lauwrens who is a family resilience expert

Weekly Group Coaching session for your child with one of our global Kids Life Studio® Coaches

Guest webinars with an expert on a variety of parenting related topics (eg. sleeping, eating, behaviour, rules, sibling rivalry, divorce)

This programme is specifically designed to support parents in implementing the 4 Pillars for Success:





Just like regular exercise builds up healthy bodies this Family Resilience Membership offers monthly toolkits with expert insights to help to strengthen a parent and child's body, heart, mind and spirit by following an easy self development process.

$75.00 USD every month


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